We may not have the four seasons in our country but for me, Spring came in the form of a baby shower in honor of such gracious parents-to-be, Colleen and Gary Viray.
Catalina Gabrielle, the precious baby that the couple is expecting in a month, deserves only the prettiest details for her first-ever social celebration. Coordinating with Mommy Colleen was very easy. She was clear on wanting pink but was open to ideas on the execution of a dainty and feminine party theme.
What can be more girly than flowers? Flowers in various shades of soft pink! For this party, I made door monograms with faux flowers (that can easily be removed so the letters can be re-used and styled according to need), custom stationery with water-colored flowers for the tables, and water-colored sign-up canvasses for guests.
My good friend Carlo Valderrama helped me mount the photo lounge with a floral frame and birdcages, a medley of flower garlands and paper lanterns for ceiling décor, and the simplest but most chic flower fringe backdrop shared for use of With A Flourish’s dessert buffet. Carlo is my angel. He has assisted me in most of my styling gigs and because he gets my design aesthetic, work is faster and more fun!
Putting together party accessories and landscapes for family and dear friends’ special moments gives me so much joy. Thinking about the smallest details and making sure that the hosts get to take home party memorabilias to remind them of the special day is one that I do not mind poring over. It is such a blessing, too, that the families I have styled parties for are very considerate and extended helping hands. Their commendations and words of praise are truly encouraging. Who knows, I might just really consider this as an income generating endeavor.
Baby Catalina Gabrielle, may you grow up to be exactly as your name suggests and more. I pray that your life will be an expression of God’s messages for all those who surround you. We’re very excited to meet you, Tali!
Photos by Carlo Valderrama, Colleen Carlos-Viray, and Gary Viray
Dessert buffet table set-up by With a flourish by Sarah Bautista-Abano
With all the existing beliefs about how first birthdays should be and my easily-swayed personality, I had a hard time finalizing Elijah’s first birthday. At the end of it all (or at the start, rather), I set my foot down and decided based on three important points (which I did not necessarily think about then, but only on hindsight).
These three points were 1) what Elijah loved, 2) the resources we had, and 3) the call of the time.
First: What Elijah Loved
Ultimately, my husband and I believed that it was a celebration of Elijah being ONE. With the birth scare that he gave us, and the problem in weight loss that we encountered at the start of his infancy, he was pretty much literally A Very Hungry Caterpillar in his own way. And we wanted to celebrate his little transition with a theme most appropriate — his favorite storybook at that point in time written by Eric Carle.
With all the many venue choices, we chose The Cocoon Boutique Hotel. Aside from its name being Cocoon, (which was perfect with the theme), I was rooting for it mainly because it was considered a Green Hotel. What is a Green Hotel? All the wood they used to build the hotel, were old and recycled, taking an extra five years to collect before actual building time. The function rooms’ chandeliers were rehashed from the Old Peninsula Hotel, and the bulbs changed to LED. Cost-wise, we adjusted the kids’ and adults’ menu very well to accommodate our guests’ needs and our budget. We were very warmly assisted by one of their personnel, Camela Valencia, all throughout the process from planning, ingress, and egress.
And what is The Very Hungry Caterpillar without the desserts, which he gobbled up on a Saturday? So yes, we had a dessert table (co-conceptualized with and completely designed by Issa). I literally drew my idea of Elijah’s cake and Karla Ilacad of Gypsy Girl Dessert turned it into life. I added mini cupcakes in line with the theme (colorful circles found on the book) which came from my talented Tita, Tina Diaz of Taza Platito/Food Magazine. My sister, Nikki and her husband, Franco, gave us mint M&Ms, which were all green and matched the caterpillar theme. The rest was from local grocery in low prices 😉 Issa’s magical hands put all of these together and voila! We had our dessert table for Elijah.
Second: What our Resources Allowed
Styling with friends. With the venue and food booked, we cut down on everything else, which was whipped up my superwoman friend, Issa, who was the queen of incredible tipid tactics and who possessed magical hands. Elijah’s first birthday party would not have been what it was without Issa and her husband, KC, and their good friend, Carlo. They were the brains, hands, and driving forces behind the idea. (Please refer to Issa’s post.)
Making own movie. I made Elijah’s video using iMovie, which did not cost a thing except for electricity and time.
Teachers are the best hosts. The host was a good friend from graduate school, Rain De Leon, who did an amazing job not just in keeping the children’s attention, but also the adults’. She was after all, a teacher and radio jock rolled into one. My other good friends, Rinna Puno and Cara Tizon, who were also my co-teachers hosted the most highlighted game of the day — families in a relay race to wrap gifts/loot bags of art/school materials for survivors of Yolanda (which brings us to the third point: the call of the time).
Third: The Call of the Time
Elijah turned one in January 2014. It was also a month and a half after Yolanda’s wrath left many Filipinos struggling emotionally and financially. I was close to deciding not to have a grand celebration, until I thought of turning the grandness of it into a Giving Opportunity. This was done with the great help of kind-hearted individuals — my sister-in-law, Anna Veloso Tuazon, whose hometown was Tacloban, and my friend Lia Manalac-Del Castillo, founder of Diksyonaryo Atbp, as well as some of our thoughtful family and friends who opted to donate. We asked our guests to donate in lieu of gifts and to join a packing relief bags/writing messages for those affected by Yolanda as a family relay game. Lastly, Elijah donated storybooks in behalf of the guests (which served as their souvenir) through the help of Diksyonaryo Atbp.
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Looking back, what made Elijah’s first birthday special was the meaning behind everything. It was a lot of hard work and support. (Thank you to my husband, Franco, for supporting my ideas, and thank you to Issa for choreographing them into what they became.)
I also believe that when Elijah grows up, he will look back at this, and realize how special his birthday was — filled with family and friends who celebrated him and with him, and how beautiful the butterfly effect was, of his turning one, to other Filipino folks as well.
Photos by Deneb Villanueva
I am a fan of late posts, and Elijah has already turned two the other day. His second birthday was much simpler than the first, but that belongs to another post in the future. 🙂
What excites me most about crafting for parties and events is the challenge of coming up with something fresh —something that’s not completely ripped off from Pinterest and Tumblr but come up with end products that are totally social-media-post-worthy. I think about themes and motifs for days and choreograph the dance of found objects and art materials in my head and later on with my hands.
For Elijah’s first birthday, Lala had the brilliant idea of having “The Very Hungry Caterpillar” as the party theme. I was familiar with the story and had done movement exercises for it for my beginners’ ballet classes. Transposing the famous story into visual and tactile magic was something I could not pass up.
Lala and I met several times to discuss the most feasible and economical way of DIY-ing the décor for Elijah’s party. Hiring a party stylist can cost an arm and a leg these days. Using good old art materials and basic skills can save you a LOT of money.
We used materials that are readily available in the market such as Japanese paper, crepe paper, straw string, barbecue sticks, Styrofoam, and yarn. We made tissue paper pompoms, crepe paper table skirts, and yarn pompom caterpillars. The caterpillars were such a hit that guests took home all those that were on display.
We livened up the desserts station with balloons, colored art paper, fuzzy wire, real plants and fake foliage that I had lying around the house. It’s also wise to buy sweet snacks from the grocery and set them up instead of hiring a supplier for desserts buffet. This way you’re sure of what you’re serving your guests and also have better control of your budget.
Thank you, Lala, for allowing me to do happy craft projects for Elijah’s first birthday party. To see/make things shift in shape and in purpose and become another kind of beautiful gives me an ultimate high. I am excited for you and your own very hungry caterpillar ELIJAH and am observing in joy as you both morph into your best selves yet.
Photos by Deneb Villanueva
Behind the scene photos by Issa and Lala
This is the haven of two women who both decided that it is time to share their passions to the world — may it be dance, theater, crafts, workshops, wife-hood, motherhood, books, travel, or documenting everyday stories of Filipino folks.
Authored by Issa Mijares – Ramos and Lala Jara – Tuazon, who bonded over their passion for performing arts and their love for breathing life into ideas.